They're imaginary as well... When you get done with them you can leave them behind, not like the real world, where you have to remember to put down the toilet seat..
Remember what you wish for may come true.. :shock: .
28 years of Blessfully??? married Tal..
They're imaginary as well... When you get done with them you can leave them behind, not like the real world, where you have to remember to put down the toilet seat..
I have to put this in. It's a quote from an interview with Gene Simmons - yeah, him - who, as we all know, has unique perspectives on man/woman relationships:
A whore, in my estimation, has more credibility than a wife, and I'll tell you why. A wife is supposed to marry you for love. A whore is not there for love, she's there to service you. Now, the difference between them is a whore, before she does her work, will tell you exactly what it is. She'll tell you, \"Blow job? This'll cost you seventy-five dollars. This is not love, and after I'm done I never want to see you again.\" Full disclosure is what they call it in court. A wife will tell you shee-ite. A wife will tell you nothing. She's about to marry you. If you get divorced, she's going to take 50 percent of your gross pretax dollars and try to get more. Now, before you get married, if you dare bring up the notion, \"By the way, let's just be completely honest with each other, what happens if we break up?\" she will cry and tell you, \"That's so unromantic.\" You know who's more credible? The whore.
Wow, quoting Gene Simmons! I don't know how to take that, really. My wife and I just celebrated 20 years of marriage. I personally think a good woman and a long term relationship is more rewarding, but that was my choice. It's not all roses and candy, but marriage was the best decision I ever made. I guess it depends on the woman, because I'm a mess.... I think you need to have a good sense of self. For example, marriage is said to be 50/50. I have found that 50 percent of the time my wife is right, and the other 50 percent of the time I am wrong! As long as I remember that, our marriage works.
Get your life right with God, start to seek His face committ your life to Him & begin ti find his specific will for your life! whether that has a Wife in it fior you? It won't matter you will have peace ansd a sence that your in God's will & doing what He want's & bottom line it is well with your soul 8)
Next as your living for God & His will not worrying about a wife & always actively seeking & forcing your own hand. Committ this to the Father in Prayer he already knows what you have need of before you ask BUT he want's you to humble yourself & come before Him with your needs etc.. So start lifting this before Him & when you least expect it it will happen! He is Faithfull He will provide Shredd 8) & Hey even if it takes a while? when it happens it will be the right one for you! You will have likemindeness serving, & loving God & you both will recognize marriage for what it truly is a covenant Till Death Do You Part 8) There is a great Trust & freedom in that whaen you have that & your not worried about well what if She falls out of love with me or something. Nothing chnges that committment when truly made from your heartr before God!! You as well as She will be committed & truly can have a joyous life together.
Your are probably thinking well Partch that's all well & good for you I'm not ready for that? well I'm just telling how to do it the right way IMOP everyone has one I choose to use the opinion that is much higher than my own & life & family was patterned after. For what it's whorth this is my advice for you! follow this & one way or the other it's gonna be alright! I personnaly believe you will meat & have the right wife! Because it seems to be your hearts desire! 8)
Wow, quoting Gene Simmons! I don't know how to take that, really. My wife and I just celebrated 20 years of marriage. I personally think a good woman and a long term relationship is more rewarding, but that was my choice. It's not all roses and candy, but marriage was the best decision I ever made. I guess it depends on the woman, because I'm a mess.... I think you need to have a good sense of self. For example, marriage is said to be 50/50. I have found that 50 percent of the time my wife is right, and the other 50 percent of the time I am wrong! As long as I remember that, our marriage works.
Good one 'taus.
I love the G/S quote, 'cuz this is a guy who speaks his mind without fear, right or wrong. And he doesn't care if he's wrong.
Don't forget that this is a guy who has been attached - and completely faithful to - one woman for 23 years. And it's not like he doesn't have other opportunities. :shock:
That said - hats off to you and all you other guys who can make it work and keep it going. 8)
Your are probably thinking well Partch that's all well & good for you I'm not ready for that? well I'm just telling how to do it the right way IMOP everyone has one I choose to use the opinion that is much higher than my own & life & family was patterned after. For what it's whorth this is my advice for you! follow this & one way or the other it's gonna be alright! I personnaly believe you will meat & have the right wife! Because it seems to be your hearts desire! 8)
Thanks for the good thoughts partch. If I believed, as you do, that was the way for me, I'd do it.
Something I do agree with is that there are things we don't decide for ourselves or control. So you let those things come out however they will.
Thanks again for the good vibes!! 8)
But master.....dinner and drinks are a good start?
JV
But, man, go up to her door?? That's f-ing creepy. That's what stalkers do. Dinner and drinks if you're lucky. There are girls who've had guys visit them randomly at work, follow them home, come home when they're not and ask their roommate to let them wait. Or, my favorite - my friend Debbie - guy shows up at her door, 7am, wakes her up, and says \"You can go back to sleep, I'll just watch you.\"
You're not one of those (I hope to god). But, seeing a scantily clad woman through the window of her house and coming up to her door and knocking and telling her that she's beautiful? That's puts you in the stalker category. I hope you don't think it comes off charming - most likely she won't take the risk. She might call the police on you.
Master, no. But I do have women friends, and I have dated several. I understand their experience - it doesn't take much.
They're imaginary as well... When you get done with them you can leave them behind, not like the real world, where you have to remember to put down the toilet seat..
I have to put this in. It's a quote from an interview with Gene Simmons - yeah, him - who, as we all know, has unique perspectives on man/woman relationships:
A whore, in my estimation, has more credibility than a wife, and I'll tell you why. A wife is supposed to marry you for love. A whore is not there for love, she's there to service you. Now, the difference between them is a whore, before she does her work, will tell you exactly what it is. She'll tell you, \"Blow job? This'll cost you seventy-five dollars. This is not love, and after I'm done I never want to see you again.\" Full disclosure is what they call it in court. A wife will tell you shee-ite. A wife will tell you nothing. She's about to marry you. If you get divorced, she's going to take 50 percent of your gross pretax dollars and try to get more. Now, before you get married, if you dare bring up the notion, \"By the way, let's just be completely honest with each other, what happens if we break up?\" she will cry and tell you, \"That's so unromantic.\" You know who's more credible? The whore.
Apples and Oranges....
Gene's definitely doing better in the boudair...(Probably anytime he wants.. Unlike poor lonely Shredd...I was just thinking a \"Real\" woman, might be a change of pace than an imaginiary one..
What's the old saying...\"Beggars can't be choosers.\"..
That's all we ever hear is Begging, so I figured you can't be too choosy..
And say what? ... \" I was just sitting in my front window totally naked. Cuz I wanted to see what it is like to live in Amsterdam. And can you believe it, some guy knocks on my door! \" :shock: :roll: I guess maybe being small town and all, and the sheriffs wife that is exceptable there. And someone would be wrong, to actually take it one step past gawking. And stop to say hi!??
In my later teens the house we moved into had a walk in, unfinished attic. I converted it in to party central. Well the side windows matched up with the neighbors. The neighbor chicks room was there. Sometimes I would forget to draw the blind when it got dark. I would look up and there she'd be nude displayed on her bed naked 8) touching herself :!: 8) It's dark! and the lights were on in both rooms. She plainly saw me/us sitting there yet when she saw that we have noticed her she would jump up all disgusted and calling us perv's LoL Being new in that neighborhood, I finally knocked on her door 8) Her, her sister and the chick accross the street 8) :twisted: :twisted: 8) 8) ... well their a chapter/thread in themselves :!: :shock: 8) :twisted: 8) :twisted: 8)
Maybe I'm just used to living in a more densely populated area? :? Certainly can't pull anything like that here. It comes off as threatening to 99% of women.
But, man, go up to her door?? That's f-ing creepy. That's what stalkers do. Dinner and drinks if you're lucky. There are girls who've had guys visit them randomly at work, follow them home, come home when they're not and ask their roommate to let them wait. Or, my favorite - my friend Debbie - guy shows up at her door, 7am, wakes her up, and says \"You can go back to sleep, I'll just watch you.\"
You're not one of those (I hope to god). But, seeing a scantily clad woman through the window of her house and coming up to her door and knocking and telling her that she's beautiful? That's puts you in the stalker category. I hope you don't think it comes off charming - most likely she won't take the risk. She might call the police on you.
Master, no. But I do have women friends, and I have dated several. I understand their experience - it doesn't take much.
You said it. As astonishing and amazing an episode as it was, the last thing I want to do is portray myself as a desperate nutbag/stalker/weirdo/pervo. And with the American culture and history being rife with episodes of women being abused and exploited by men, you can see why a woman wouldn't see a strange man as the safest bet ever.
But, man, go up to her door?? That's f-ing creepy. That's what stalkers do. Dinner and drinks if you're lucky. There are girls who've had guys visit them randomly at work, follow them home, come home when they're not and ask their roommate to let them wait. Or, my favorite - my friend Debbie - guy shows up at her door, 7am, wakes her up, and says \"You can go back to sleep, I'll just watch you.\"
You're not one of those (I hope to god). But, seeing a scantily clad woman through the window of her house and coming up to her door and knocking and telling her that she's beautiful? That's puts you in the stalker category. I hope you don't think it comes off charming - most likely she won't take the risk. She might call the police on you.
Master, no. But I do have women friends, and I have dated several. I understand their experience - it doesn't take much.
You said it. As astonishing and amazing an episode as it was,the last thing I want to do is portray myself as a desperate nutbag/stalker/weirdo/perv.And with the American culture and history being rife with episodes of women being abused and exploited by men, you can see why a woman wouldn't see a strange man as the safest bet ever.
\"I'll just watch\"??? EW. :shock:
Then maybe you can explain the last 1000 post????
And every other country in the world.... What kinda D/A statement is that suppose to mean?? :roll: Some of the things you say about this country? Are you a U.S. citizen?
I mean, don't take my word for it - I asked around, using the exact scenario described here.A Of girls attractive enough for shredd, and any other bachelors here, in both appearance and (for the most part) personality.
First answer is, generally: \"I wouldn't answer the door.\"
Ok, for sake of argument, suppose you did. Suppose you didn't ask \"Who is it?\" first. Then I quoted the line suggested here, verbatum.
The best response you will have: smile and a \"Thank you!\" 99% of the time the door will be shut in your face, immediately following. At this point, you have a combined less than .01% chance of getting anything out of this interaction, but we'll ignore that for a second.
Suppose she kept it open long enough to get a lunch invitation. \"I mean, maybe, a free lunch is always good...\" my question is: for whom?
All of these are qualified with an initial \"Well what if he is a rapist or weirdo or perv of some kind?\"
So, um, if that's the strategy... you'd better be using it frequently, and often. Your chances are not so much slim, they're more like none.
Nothing to lose? Granted. Anything to gain? Doubtful.
Nothing to lose? Granted. Anything to gain? Doubtful.
Exactly. This scenario reminds me of the scene in \"Trading Places\" where the princess is in the police station picking up Dan Akroyd, and the big oaf sits down next to her and admires her handbag, and the princess has that \"He's going to kill me\" look on her face.
For what it's worth, and in case it interests any of you - I saw her again, in the same window, just a couple of days later. I \"happened\" to have parked on the street a door or two away, and even though by the time I got to my car the sun/reflection made it impossible to see her, I made a point of letting her see ME, and know that I knew she was there. Like it matters.
But go up and knock on the door? uh-yuh...0.01% ain't great odds, even where I live. :roll:
Me <---- I am not disputing what you guys are saying. BUT from the op were talking a woman sitting totally naked in her front window!! Big difference from just seeing a beautiful woman in her house and knocking on the door!
The ones you asked around of.. They are the type that would/do sit in their birthday suite in their front window? If they aren't the type to do so I would hope they would give the response they did!
There may be a few reasons for sitting there like that. And aside from making a living! :shock: Or just being an out right slut. She may just be trying to spice up the whole se.x drive.
I got a call out once, the man of the house is somewhere but home the ole lady (not bad btw ) sitting there with me. Well I'm doing what I was there to do. And this chick starts flashing me some bush! No bones about it! no accident she knew what she was doing. I'm like \"SWEET! \" But I never acknowledged her. If the ole man wasn't home ..... I don't know! probably not ..... Not worth losing a client over some strange! Found out later they were trying to get pregnant. From a bud of mine who went thru that. He said the 1st month is cool but then it's just turns into a boring job. So perhaps that's all she was after, just trying to spice it up!
But trying to capture some rays thru a window, in November, in Colorado!?? Maybe the higher elevation may help in that reguard. I don't know. That's why they make tanning beds! But I do know sitting naked in your window isn't normal behavior, and when one does something abnormal... one gets abnormal responses!
But trying to capture some rays thru a window, in November, in Colorado!?? Maybe the higher elevation may help in that reguard. I don't know. That's why they make tanning beds! But I do know sitting naked in your window isn't normal behavior, and when one does something abnormal... one gets abnormal responses!
One thing y'all haveta know - yes, in November in CO, the rays are awesome. I live at high elevation and the sun is strong all year round. So sitting in the window catching rays is not unusual - she gets to be inside, warm, and still catching rays!
I should also mention that living in a small Rocky Mtn town is a drawing card for people who wanna do whatever the he|| they wanna do. This chick probably likes it, feels no compulsion to comply with any ideas that she oughtn't be doing this, and maybe even likes it a bit when some horny shmoe like me walks by and sees her. Power trip? Gloating over winning the genetic Pick-Six? Taunting? Completely oblivious to the affect she has? Only she can say... :roll:
But the point is she can do something many would think \"abnormal\"; but still isn't bound to accept \"abnormal\" responses, least of all in her own home. If I knocked on the door, she'd be within her rights to split my head with a bat, or plug a slug into my chest (CO has the \"make my day\" law...).
Well, I too have conducted a survey, and every female I surveyed said they wouldn't mind being told they were beautiful by a stranger.
Here is the survey question: If you were sunning yourself, totally naked, in front of a window in complete view of a public sidewalk, would you be offended by someone coming up to your door, introducing themselves and complimenting your beauty?
I have always been of the opinion that you have to place yourself into a position of opportunity in order to achieve any level of success in anything.
In this matter, regardless of the liklihood of success, taking initiative, no matter how bold, places you in that position of opportunity if by chance, she doesn't believe you are a perve. Continuing to walk down the sidewalk and do nothing only guarantees that you have no chance. Has anyone here ever studied game theory?
At any rate, my response still stands. If that makes me a perve, then so be it.
I asked around, using the exact scenario described here.
On my way to Maryland! You are going to introduce me to all these chicks who like to lounge around naked! ..yes?!!!
Oh wait.. upon viewing Jimi's last post perhaps I should head to LA .mmmmmmm Dang decisions . heads or tails .. dang that ain't no good either looking for both.! :shock:
Well, I too have conducted a survey, and every female I surveyed said they wouldn't mind being told they were beautiful by a stranger.
I'm gonna move where JV lives. 8)
I should point out that being approached by a stranger - on the street perhaps - and being told you're beautiful is MUCH different than being naked in a window and have a stranger who saw you knock on your door to tell you that. Clearly you've never taken a slug in the chest, least of all on taken a 0.1% chance.
That said, JV's theory is on - one of my favorite quotes is Wayne Gretzky (upon being asked how he scored so many goals when he's a very average shooter) saying: \"100% of the shots you don't take don't go in.\"
But I still say there's a big difference in circumstances and times when going out on a limb is taking a good risk, and times where it's just sticking your neck out to be cut.
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They're imaginary as well... When you get done with them you can leave them behind, not like the real world, where you have to remember to put down the toilet seat..
Remember what you wish for may come true.. :shock: .
28 years of Blessfully??? married Tal..
A whore, in my estimation, has more credibility than a wife, and I'll tell you why. A wife is supposed to marry you for love. A whore is not there for love, she's there to service you. Now, the difference between them is a whore, before she does her work, will tell you exactly what it is. She'll tell you, \"Blow job? This'll cost you seventy-five dollars. This is not love, and after I'm done I never want to see you again.\" Full disclosure is what they call it in court. A wife will tell you shee-ite. A wife will tell you nothing. She's about to marry you. If you get divorced, she's going to take 50 percent of your gross pretax dollars and try to get more. Now, before you get married, if you dare bring up the notion, \"By the way, let's just be completely honest with each other, what happens if we break up?\" she will cry and tell you, \"That's so unromantic.\" You know who's more credible? The whore.
Get your life right with God, start to seek His face committ your life to Him & begin ti find his specific will for your life! whether that has a Wife in it fior you? It won't matter you will have peace ansd a sence that your in God's will & doing what He want's & bottom line it is well with your soul 8)
Next as your living for God & His will not worrying about a wife & always actively seeking & forcing your own hand. Committ this to the Father in Prayer he already knows what you have need of before you ask BUT he want's you to humble yourself & come before Him with your needs etc.. So start lifting this before Him & when you least expect it it will happen! He is Faithfull He will provide Shredd 8) & Hey even if it takes a while? when it happens it will be the right one for you! You will have likemindeness serving, & loving God & you both will recognize marriage for what it truly is a covenant Till Death Do You Part 8) There is a great Trust & freedom in that whaen you have that & your not worried about well what if She falls out of love with me or something. Nothing chnges that committment when truly made from your heartr before God!! You as well as She will be committed & truly can have a joyous life together.
Your are probably thinking well Partch that's all well & good for you I'm not ready for that? well I'm just telling how to do it the right way IMOP everyone has one I choose to use the opinion that is much higher than my own & life & family was patterned after. For what it's whorth this is my advice for you! follow this & one way or the other it's gonna be alright! I personnaly believe you will meat & have the right wife! Because it seems to be your hearts desire! 8)
Good one 'taus.
I love the G/S quote, 'cuz this is a guy who speaks his mind without fear, right or wrong. And he doesn't care if he's wrong.
Don't forget that this is a guy who has been attached - and completely faithful to - one woman for 23 years. And it's not like he doesn't have other opportunities. :shock:
That said - hats off to you and all you other guys who can make it work and keep it going. 8)
Something I do agree with is that there are things we don't decide for ourselves or control. So you let those things come out however they will.
Thanks again for the good vibes!! 8)
But, man, go up to her door?? That's f-ing creepy. That's what stalkers do. Dinner and drinks if you're lucky. There are girls who've had guys visit them randomly at work, follow them home, come home when they're not and ask their roommate to let them wait. Or, my favorite - my friend Debbie - guy shows up at her door, 7am, wakes her up, and says \"You can go back to sleep, I'll just watch you.\"
You're not one of those (I hope to god). But, seeing a scantily clad woman through the window of her house and coming up to her door and knocking and telling her that she's beautiful? That's puts you in the stalker category. I hope you don't think it comes off charming - most likely she won't take the risk. She might call the police on you.
Master, no. But I do have women friends, and I have dated several. I understand their experience - it doesn't take much.
Apples and Oranges....
Gene's definitely doing better in the boudair...(Probably anytime he wants.. Unlike poor lonely Shredd...I was just thinking a \"Real\" woman, might be a change of pace than an imaginiary one..
What's the old saying...\"Beggars can't be choosers.\"..
That's all we ever hear is Begging, so I figured you can't be too choosy..
And say what? ... \" I was just sitting in my front window totally naked. Cuz I wanted to see what it is like to live in Amsterdam. And can you believe it, some guy knocks on my door! \" :shock: :roll: I guess maybe being small town and all, and the sheriffs wife that is exceptable there. And someone would be wrong, to actually take it one step past gawking. And stop to say hi!??
In my later teens the house we moved into had a walk in, unfinished attic. I converted it in to party central. Well the side windows matched up with the neighbors. The neighbor chicks room was there. Sometimes I would forget to draw the blind when it got dark. I would look up and there she'd be nude displayed on her bed naked 8) touching herself :!: 8) It's dark! and the lights were on in both rooms. She plainly saw me/us sitting there yet when she saw that we have noticed her she would jump up all disgusted and calling us perv's LoL Being new in that neighborhood, I finally knocked on her door 8)
Creepy??? You east-coasters are a liiiiittttle bit too uptight.
Methinks thou dost protest too much
\"I'll just watch\"??? EW. :shock:
Then maybe you can explain the last 1000 post????
And every other country in the world.... What kinda D/A statement is that suppose to mean?? :roll: Some of the things you say about this country? Are you a U.S. citizen?
I see your point, but read that sentence again
First answer is, generally: \"I wouldn't answer the door.\"
Ok, for sake of argument, suppose you did. Suppose you didn't ask \"Who is it?\" first. Then I quoted the line suggested here, verbatum.
The best response you will have: smile and a \"Thank you!\" 99% of the time the door will be shut in your face, immediately following. At this point, you have a combined less than .01% chance of getting anything out of this interaction, but we'll ignore that for a second.
Suppose she kept it open long enough to get a lunch invitation. \"I mean, maybe, a free lunch is always good...\" my question is: for whom?
All of these are qualified with an initial \"Well what if he is a rapist or weirdo or perv of some kind?\"
So, um, if that's the strategy... you'd better be using it frequently, and often. Your chances are not so much slim, they're more like none.
Nothing to lose? Granted. Anything to gain? Doubtful.
For what it's worth, and in case it interests any of you - I saw her again, in the same window, just a couple of days later. I \"happened\" to have parked on the street a door or two away, and even though by the time I got to my car the sun/reflection made it impossible to see her, I made a point of letting her see ME, and know that I knew she was there. Like it matters.
But go up and knock on the door? uh-yuh...0.01% ain't great odds, even where I live. :roll:
Me <---- I am not disputing what you guys are saying. BUT from the op were talking a woman sitting totally naked in her front window!! Big difference from just seeing a beautiful woman in her house and knocking on the door!
The ones you asked around of.. They are the type that would/do sit in their birthday suite in their front window? If they aren't the type to do so I would hope they would give the response they did!
There may be a few reasons for sitting there like that. And aside from making a living! :shock: Or just being an out right slut. She may just be trying to spice up the whole se.x drive.
I got a call out once, the man of the house is somewhere but home the ole lady (not bad btw ) sitting there with me. Well I'm doing what I was there to do. And this chick starts flashing me some bush! No bones about it! no accident she knew what she was doing. I'm like \"SWEET! \" But I never acknowledged her. If the ole man wasn't home ..... I don't know! probably not ..... Not worth losing a client over some strange! Found out later they were trying to get pregnant. From a bud of mine who went thru that. He said the 1st month is cool but then it's just turns into a boring job. So perhaps that's all she was after, just trying to spice it up!
But trying to capture some rays thru a window, in November, in Colorado!?? Maybe the higher elevation may help in that reguard. I don't know. That's why they make tanning beds! But I do know sitting naked in your window isn't normal behavior, and when one does something abnormal... one gets abnormal responses!
I should also mention that living in a small Rocky Mtn town is a drawing card for people who wanna do whatever the he|| they wanna do. This chick probably likes it, feels no compulsion to comply with any ideas that she oughtn't be doing this, and maybe even likes it a bit when some horny shmoe like me walks by and sees her. Power trip? Gloating over winning the genetic Pick-Six? Taunting? Completely oblivious to the affect she has? Only she can say... :roll:
But the point is she can do something many would think \"abnormal\"; but still isn't bound to accept \"abnormal\" responses, least of all in her own home. If I knocked on the door, she'd be within her rights to split my head with a bat, or plug a slug into my chest (CO has the \"make my day\" law...).
I always thought about moving to the Rockies...
No freakn' way now..
Here is the survey question: If you were sunning yourself, totally naked, in front of a window in complete view of a public sidewalk, would you be offended by someone coming up to your door, introducing themselves and complimenting your beauty?
I have always been of the opinion that you have to place yourself into a position of opportunity in order to achieve any level of success in anything.
In this matter, regardless of the liklihood of success, taking initiative, no matter how bold, places you in that position of opportunity if by chance, she doesn't believe you are a perve. Continuing to walk down the sidewalk and do nothing only guarantees that you have no chance. Has anyone here ever studied game theory?
At any rate, my response still stands. If that makes me a perve, then so be it.
To Perve or not to Perve...that is the question.
JV
\"You can't catch no fish, if you don't put a hook in the water\".
On my way to Maryland! You are going to introduce me to all these chicks who like to lounge around naked! ..yes?!!!
Oh wait.. upon viewing Jimi's last post perhaps I should head to LA .mmmmmmm Dang decisions . heads or tails .. dang that ain't no good either looking for both.! :shock:
I should point out that being approached by a stranger - on the street perhaps - and being told you're beautiful is MUCH different than being naked in a window and have a stranger who saw you knock on your door to tell you that. Clearly you've never taken a slug in the chest, least of all on taken a 0.1% chance.
That said, JV's theory is on - one of my favorite quotes is Wayne Gretzky (upon being asked how he scored so many goals when he's a very average shooter) saying: \"100% of the shots you don't take don't go in.\"
But I still say there's a big difference in circumstances and times when going out on a limb is taking a good risk, and times where it's just sticking your neck out to be cut.
I'll take tail, every time.